This morning I gave a handjob to a friend at his request. I used the same masturbatory technique that I would use on myself which was mainly rubbing the underside with an up/down movement close to the urethra. He clearly enjoyed it but I was left with a feeling that I'd not done as well as I expected to because I didn't manage to get him hard or close to cumming, although to be fair he is a somewhat older man. It was a little like trying to manipulate an uncooked sausage. I would be grateful if anyone has any advice on how I could improve the technique as I suspect it's a request that will come again.

 

My advice would be to ask three floors lower down.

Get your anti-sarcasm hat on!

 

Practice makes perfect. You’ll have to find how he likes it. Try rubbing the balls. Or teasing the tip with warm breathing.

 

I wasn't being sarcastic. It was an honest request for advice.

 

Many thanks for that. It's much appreciated.

 

I would ask him what he enjoys and go from there. I'm sure every guy is different in how he likes it, how firm to grip, lube or no lube, etc.

 

Oh, we know. You really wanna know how to give a hand job.

Here's the thing.

If you read the rules you would know that "general discussion" is not the place to ask about how to give a hand job.
General discussion, you see, is reserved for all the assholes and smart asses who love to pull each others wienies (figuratively speaking), it is not for people seeking advice.

For that you need to take that elevator over there down into the sub basement. Its only 3 floors, but a world away.
Oh. And Shooter doesn't recommend that you go into the bathrooms down there, certainly do not go in unarmed and without a bio suit.

Shooter does have one question back at you;
This …….. friend...……… of yours. Does he not have hands?

 

Thought having been here over a year you'd have known what gets posted where, you need Sexuality 3 more floors down.

 

Sometimes, it's just nice to have a helping hand.

 

Older guys tend to take a little longer to warm up but i find them eating me helps massively

 

Masturbation is the perfect closed loop feedback system. Masturbating a friend is a less than perfect closed loop feedback system, but few people complain about it.

If he asked once, he'll ask again.

 

Just suck it. He'll get hard.

 

Oh....YUMMY,,

 

Maybe push his shell chair to the window so he has something interesting to look at while you do it.

 

Hmm always wondered if there's a wrong
way to give one?

 

Yes. There is definitely a wrong way. It's a pretty low bar, but no matter how soft her hands are, there's a delicate balance between slipping and pulling. As in all things in life, good coaching is critical.

 

Just have to feel your way and watch his reactions if none of it works add your lips.

 

Thanks for the advice. It's taking me a while to figure out how this place operates.

 

Thanks Annie. I may have signed up over a year ago but I haven't spent a lot of time here since. Given some of the replies I've had on this thread I'm starting to suspect that I haven't missed much. If I've posted something in the wrong bit of the forum I'm genuinely sorry about that, but I think people should be able to redirect me to where I need to go without being assholes about it.